Women, What Gets Them Seduced?

We've all heard about it before - women are a bit hard to please. If you're a guy who has been dumped a dozen of times, you'll know what I mean. However, this is the most common misconception about the female species - they're hard to crack, hard to understand and hard to reach. But why? Well, my dear friend, have you ever asked yourself why you often get rejected? It's not about your smooth pick up lines and your restless banter about how cool and great you are - sometimes, it's all about the style. Are you aware of what gets a woman turned on? Do you know what they want from men and what keeps them interested? Well, today is the day, my friend. Below are a few tips on sexual temptation in women and how you'll be successful in seducing them. Let's take it one step at a time.

• A smart, wordy guy. Let's face it: women fall in love with sense of humor. It doesn't matter if you're the most drop dead gorgeous dude in town or if you're the richest man she would ever meet. Although these things can help your status up a notch, it's all going to be nothing if you don't have a killer wit to make a woman laugh. So start doing something about it!
• Letting them know they're pretty and desired. Compliments will always sound sweet in a woman's ears. Make sure you don't overdo though, or she'd think you just want to get in her pants. There are numerous ways for you to seduce her little by little through compliments. Just say it out loud, out in the open and out of the blue. Skip your pick-up lines and smooth talking tricks --- she'd appreciate it more when you keep things as normal as possible.
• A little chivalry every once in a while. Well, nice guys don't get pretty lucky with women often but I should tell you that chivalry is not dead and it won't kill if you show a little of your hidden gentlemanly ways. A woman wants to feel protected and taken cared for by the man she loves and by going out of your way to impress her makes you more appealing and attractive than ever. Boldness is a turn-on.
• Your utmost full attention. Do you want to make her cling for you tightly as if never wanting to let you go? Shower her with your full attention always --- you don't need to exaggerate it as well. Just don't check out other girls and flirt with other members of the female species when you're together. Not is it only stupid, it's downright disrespectful. Be a good listener, focus on what she's saying and she'll making you feel like a total desirable hotshot in no time.

Powerful Dating Tips

How many times have you been attracted to person and lack the confidence to get their attention? If that is you, you are reading the right post. I will show you a few tips how to win any date and get that person calling back for more. Are you ready? Here goes...

Tip 1. Fix your confidence.

Let's face it! If you want a date you have to see yourself on one. You have to have confidence that you can. Confidence comes from within. How do you feel about yourself? If you don't feel like a million bucks, more likely the other person is going to feel the same way too.

Here are some ways to increase your confidence and win that date! Lets start with your physical appearance. Are you comfortable with your body? If not, exercise and get toned. Attraction is first based on appearance, then personality second, and so on. So it is important to look sharp! How is your breath? Your hair? Your clothes? You get the drift? To build confidence you must do the things that make you happy and comfortable in your own skin. This confidence will radiate and attract people to you.

Tip 2. Smile.

I can not say this enough. How many times have you seen a fine woman or man walking down the street and their face look like they are sucking on sour candy? The face is a precious asset that constantly communicates with others. When the face smiles it softens the features of the body and send a message that you are not a threatening person. So practice to smile and be conscious of doing it often. When you smile, this will shape the face and eyes in an attractive way that will catch attention.

This goes back to tip 1 about confidence. When you smile, this also shows confidence that will attract any date.

Tip 3. Start a conversation.

Say something! Just to say hello with confidence will always break the ice. This may sound very simple, but that is what you want to do - keep it simple! After saying hello, compliment the person about something that you notice about them that's cool. Maybe it's their clothing, or whatever. Just break the ice. Once a conversation has started, with confidence ask to meet with the person again, maybe for a cup of coffee. But whatever you do, don't push too hard, this might spook your possible date away.

Relationship Survival Technique

We all fantasize about that faerie tale relationship. Men may hold one vision while women dream about another, but when it comes right down to it we all want the same thing in the end: to be happy, healthy, prosperous loved and valued for whom we are. In other words, to feel good about ourselves and our lives.

Relationships are the most challenging ways to uncover love because we need to be transparent in exposing our vulnerabilities. And often we come face to face with our own blocks, attachments and unconscious programming while our lover mirrors back to us evidence of our likes, dislikes, belief systems, judgments, compulsions and conformities. Yet we continue to return to the ring of love again and again because there's an indescribable essence inside each of us that says something bigger is at play when we come together with another.

There's no disputing the fact that we are the ones who choose how we feel. But when we are tossed all over the emotional universe with the words, expectations and agendas of others, it can get difficult to stay centered in those feelings of love, compassion, adoration and generosity that bring us inner peace, clarity of mind and the fulfillment of that faerie tale relationship. Without calmness and understanding we more easily react to situations rather than respond to them. It's our reactions that get us into trouble because we usually lash out at people we love or withdraw; neither being the loving solution to the problem at hand.

This survival technique gives you the tools to immediately return to your center anytime, anywhere and in the presence of anyone. It's easy, powerful and only requires a few minutes of your time. Life doesn't have to be difficult or complicated. In those moments when you feel the tension building between you and your partner, friends or children, use these simple steps to calm your storm so you can continue to engage in a joyful relationship dance with those you love.

Practice these 5 steps often and at times when you are not experiencing stress, in order to develop a habit of responding rationally to all situations rather than reacting from a place of fear and insecurity. And please share this process freely with others, so they too can bring themselves back into balance easily.

Steps:
(Note: you can do this with your eyes open or closed; closing your eyes eliminates unnecessary distractions and returns you to center quicker.)

1. Take several long, slow deep breaths in and out, until your focus is only on your breath. Continue this slow, focused breathing as long as necessary, allowing your mind to empty of all thoughts, without rushing the process.

2. Think of something that makes you feel good. It can be a person you appreciate, a pet, a beautiful sunset, an enchanting song or anything that gives you the feeling of joy, appreciation, love or gratitude. Stay with the feeling for as long as necessary (This helps you open your heart and shifts you out of the flight/flight reaction state.)

3. Evoke the genuine feelings of care, compassion and love and radiate these feelings towards the person, pet or object of affection you choose in Step 2. Breathe these feelings out from your heart like a stream of effervescent light and allow them to completely envelop the object of your affection.

4. Now envision your lover, friend or child and allow this same stream of love energy to infuse his or her entire being. Keep the feelings of love and care flowing and send the emotions of gratitude and appreciation to this person because it feels good to you.

5. Take a nice, deep breath in and let it out slowly, deciding that no matter how anyone else behaves, YOU are choosing to walk this earth life in love, peace and compassion.